Power in Parenting-seasons

Romans 8:28. All things work together for good to them that love the Lord and are called according to his purpose.

In life we go through seasons. Some hard, some easy. Some complicated, some simple. Some tumultuous, some peaceful.

It does no good to obsess over seasons. When we do we get stuck. Our growth is stunted. We may not always like the season we are in, but God takes all things and works them together for our good.

We need a big picture vision, not a small picture vision. Most people like apple pie or some kind of pie. If I were to offer you pie and you came to get it, and I gave you a bowl of flour, you would be frustrated, flour is in apple pie, but by itself it does not taste like apple pie. You will have flour moments but if you combine it with sugar, salt, crisco, and apples it’s all good.

Don’t obsess over seasons that are mere ingredients to the finish product. Wait and trust that all the ingredients put together will make a great finished product.

For example, the birth of your child is incredible, everyone is there, and so excited. Not long after you have to go home. The full responsibility is on you. The baby keeps you awake all night, you feel unqualified.

How about the wonderful times when your baby starts talking and walking, it’s so much fun, then all of a sudden they have a mind of their own and are almost impossible to keep up with, and you wish they would just be quiet.

I love that fun elementary age, they’re learning and think you know everything, then they become an adolescent, and they know everything and you know nothing.

As our kids grow, there are some great things that happen, some very painful things that happen. What we should never do is obsess over a season. Get hung up in a season that is so good we refuse to release and move on, or allow a bitter season to make us bitter, and everyone else moves on and we are stuck.

Remember ALL things work together for good! Live in the moment, and let your faith and trust in God help you realize, that at some point, your gonna have a fantastic tasting pie, and maybe a little ice cream.

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